Today, I felt a deep sense of lost. I feel the need to stop and just smell. A lot has changed in my life. This made me back track and feel like I am not moving at all. Just when I think I am moving forward; I get sent back several steps. Sometimes, I change things to better my thinking and growth. My professional life seems to suffer this the most. When I change the way I think and then express it, It comes off as fake. When I change my communication techniques, it comes off as fake. For a person who speaks professionally everyday, how can it come off as fake? I tend to be a people pleaser and I am trying not to be. Thus, when I am not people pleasing, I come off as fake and misunderstood. Has anyone felt this way?
Communication is the key to learning people and sharing ideas. Communication can be visual, spoken or through actions. Although, you can talk til your are blue in the face, some people tend to speak through actions because that is how they better express it. I speak through painting, graphic designs and my computer work better than teaching. When I am with my computer, I am doing what I do best. I love every minute of it. However, it is very hard to work with people who are not good at technology, even if you are trying your hardest to teach them how to use it and is very patient with them.
How do speak to others? Maybe you speak, maybe you create, or maybe you show through your actions? It is important that, whatever you do, do it with love, kindness, and patience. Always remember it stop and smell the air to take a breather because sometimes that air can relieve all your setbacks and change you for the better.
Much Love,
Relaxsista
Relax Sista, That's Life! 