Time and time again, we feel our lives drifting and time goes without us. In time, the choices that we make either for us or for others. Those choices create and shape our lives. At some point, we pass through a situation that will make us more comfortable with the choices we’ve made and make others less uncomfortable with us. We share our own experiences with each one of the choices we make in life. The best way we can make is by giving ourselves the opportunity to be more open to others and share our own ideas with them.
Our choice takes on a new dimension in a new way of thinking. We are not just looking for a change to our life but a change in how we think about ourselves. Instead, we look to the past as a vision of our own past. Does it matter? It mattered to a point where we could be better off than we were. We could be a better person, but then, there is the negative aspects that bring us down. People who think that the choices we make are visions of what we want and not need. Choices are made for ourselves and not others. Sometimes the choices we make are our peace and has nothing to do with them. Sometimes our choices are for our peace. Our choices are for our needs and not what we want.
I made several choices that are goals for 2024. This was not new year goals, but goals for me to grow as a person. I built confidence in myself, but then a few factors in my life, gave me negativity. These factors not only brought me down but destroyed my confidence. Words hurt. It is hard for a person whose confidence was destroyed as a kid to build it back up to where it was if they do not know when, where and how they lost it. Then when they see it and feel it, it takes time to develop it and make it stay. Sometimes we have to step out of the box, to see that we were uncomfortable in the box. The comfortness is not in the box, but outside the box, where you can be free to choose what you need and not let the negative factors play a part in your life.
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