What does “having it all” mean to you? Is it attainable?
Having it all is not material to me but a sense of peace of mind. To be independent and have a place to call your own is having it all. Space to be yourself is rejuvenating. Sometimes when you are by yourself, you can sit down and plan your life. New opportunities can send you to places you least expected. I used to say no to a lot of things but now I think about all the positives and negatives. It is an adventure of a lifetime to have peace like “having it all.”
Relax Sista, That's Life! 